Taking Him Back Or Letting Him Go:
Girl please...taking him back is not the hardest thing a person has ever done in their lives. Aren't you ready to start living?
A man that is truly convinced of what he wants and is asking for you to walk beside him in life is different than a man begging for forgiveness because he was caught deviating and has alot to lose. Two different standards and two different ways to evaluate the heart's context.
Don't let pride mess up your ability to see where that man in your life is coming from. Everybody has a process for coming to a conclusion about what they want in life and what they don't. The room you give yourself for growth make sure you are equally able to extend that to that man too. This said...the better at fairness you become, the easier it can be for you to discern when someone is not being fair with you. Then make your call...fostering strength through your decisions is better than wreckless rage because of hurt and disappointment in my personal opinion. You have alot to live for, but sometimes that life you want means you gotta fight through the stuff you don't want. I bet farmers wish their crops were ready for the picking as soon as they got the land but the reality is they have to cultivate it first...eventually the harvest will be there..but first comes the work.
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Calvin L. Smith, MA, LPC
Calvin is a licensed Christian Counselor. He received his first masters degree in Christian Counseling from Oral Roberts University.
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