Always "On" in Your Relationship does not make it better. Avoiding Micro-management, Empowering Collaboration in Your Relationship
Relationships are a process. You are not always "On", you are not always "Off". You are however available when you need to be. How you need to be. Failure to learn this skill will result in
not having the filter to operate effectively in your relationships. Further, Someone's opinion of your effectiveness cannot overpower the results of a genuine exchange between two people. Comfort, courage, trust are fostered through these exchanges. Hogging the ball, micro-managing, being overly involved in your interactions may express concern and interest but falling back, playing it cool, being effectively and efficient in empowering your connections...that brings about the real achievement of desirable expressions that can facilitate love, peace, understanding and mutual committed alignment.
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Calvin L. Smith, MA, LPC
Calvin is a licensed Christian Counselor. He received his first masters degree in Christian Counseling from Oral Roberts University.
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