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May 18th, 2016

5/18/2016

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Are You Grieving A Break Up?

3/27/2016

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Are You Grieving A Break Up?
by Calvin smith

Grieving the loss of a relationship can be a difficult experience. It is important to recognize when you are grieving because it can help you to adjust your life view towards healthier more functional ways of  relating.  What can happen as a result of not getting over it?
When a break up happens a person may exhibit some of the items listed below as a result of having difficulty processing through the loss of relationship.      

  1. Targeting dead end relationships (i.e. people that are already married , involved in a relationship, or have some other obligation that renders them emotionally and psychologically unavailable.)
  2. Avoidance of committed relationships. These persons may become extremely shy after a breakup or loss of a relationship. They find comfort in activities that isolate rather than expose them to the dating scene and people they may be interested in.  They may be found declining invitations to go somewhere with a person of interest if asked. Some people may lose themselves in a hobby (i.e. going out with buddies, drinking, work, etc.)rather than venturing out into relationship.)


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20 Common Challenges Single Men have Co-Parenting

3/27/2016

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20 Common Challenges Single Men have Co-Parenting.

1. Keeping daily and upcoming events schedules straight.
2. Coordinating the inclusion of kids in family events.
3. Knowing when to visit.
4. Un-expected financial requests. 
5. Children comparing their fathers with the fathers of other families 


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12 Quick Co-Parenting Tips for Single Women

3/27/2016

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​12 Quick Co-Parenting Tips for Single Women
by Calvin Smith
 
1.  Treat your child's father with respect. If you ever feel wronged, two wrongs don't make a right. Find a way to talk it out to get an understanding. Even if you need to go see a counselor. (If you need a counselor call (405)748-0091 to schedule an appointment with Okparents)
2.  Let your ex see his children and allow him to be involved with them.
3.  Don't use the law to belittle the father.
4.  When there is a whirlwind of emotions, remember... 


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    ​Calvin L. Smith, MA, LPC

    Calvin is a licensed Christian Counselor. He received his first masters degree in Christian Counseling from Oral Roberts University.

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